How to Be More Confident: Breaking Through Fear and Stepping Into Your Power

How to Be More Confident: Breaking Through Fear and Stepping Into Your Powerough Fear and Stepping Into Your Power

December 02, 2024•5 min read

"Confidence isn’t about being perfect; it’s about embracing who you are and showing up anyway—even when fear whispers you can’t." ~ Anacani Walters

How to Be More Confident: Breaking Through Fear and Stepping Into Your Power

Hey queen,

Can we have a real moment? How many times have you felt that deep tug in your gut—a dream, a goal, or even just a wish to show the world what you’re made of—but then fear swoops in and puts a stop to it? I’ve been there. Heck, I practically lived there for years.

The truth is, fear has this sneaky way of convincing us we’re not enough. Not smart enough, not thin enough, not young enough, not whatever enough. But here’s the thing: fear is a liar. And I’m here to help you take that first step toward confidence and to stop letting fear hold you back from showcasing the incredible, unique, powerhouse brand that is you.

Entrepreneur woman worried about what people will think of her

Fear of Judgement: What Will They Think?

Let’s address the elephant in the room: the fear of being judged. Whether it’s putting yourself out there on social media or finally booking that branding photoshoot, there’s always this voice that whispers, “What will they think of me?”

Well, let me flip that script for you: What if they think you’re amazing?
What if seeing your face, hearing your voice, and experiencing your energy is exactly what someone else needs to feel inspired, seen, or even just understood?

The truth is, you have no control over what others think—but you have all the control over how you show up. When you focus on showing up authentically (messy hair and all), you start to realize that the people who matter will love you for exactly who you are.

Fear of Rejection: “What If I’m Not Good Enough?”

Ah, the classic I’m-not-good-enough spiral. This fear held me back for years. I was constantly comparing myself to others who seemed to have it all together—perfect Instagram feeds, flawless hair, and successful brands that looked like a Pinterest board come to life.

But here’s the thing: nobody starts perfect. Nobody is perfect. The people you admire most? They’re just out there, doing their thing, mistakes and all. The only difference between them and the version of you stuck in fear is one simple decision: they chose to start.

Entrepreneurial woman happy and confident | EmpowerHER Wave Agency

Fear of the Camera: “I Don’t Like How I Look”

Can we talk about how intimidating it is to step in front of a camera? You’re not alone if you’ve ever thought, “What if I hate how I look?” or “I just don’t feel good in my own skin.”

First, let me tell you this: Your body, just as it is right now, is worthy of love, celebration, and confidence. I know what it’s like to look in the mirror and focus on what’s wrong instead of what’s beautiful. It’s a habit many of us fall into, but it’s one we can break.

Here’s how:

  • Start small. Look in the mirror every day and find one thing you love about yourself. Maybe it’s your smile, your eyes, or the fact that your body carried you through the day. Gratitude for the small things grows into something big.

  • Take the leap. Often, the fear of the camera isn’t about the camera itself but the stories we tell ourselves about our worth. The act of being seen—of allowing someone to photograph the real you—is an act of self-love.

Why I Created Essence Shots

Let me share a little secret: I created Essence Shots because I know what it’s like to feel terrified of stepping into the spotlight. When I was just starting out, I desperately wanted branding photos that made me look as confident as I was trying to feel. But hiring a professional photographer felt out of reach—both financially and emotionally.

I wanted to create a bridge—a space where you could feel seen, celebrated, and empowered without the pressure of a massive price tag or the need to have it all figured out.

Essence Shots aren’t about perfection; they’re about capturing you in your essence. The light in your eyes when you talk about your passion. The way you carry yourself when you’re standing in your power. These aren’t just photos—they’re a declaration that you’re ready to step up and show the world what you’re made of.

Essence Shots Client Lifestyle photo | EmpowerHER Wave Agency

Why You Should Book Now

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to invest in yourself, this is it. I’m offering a one-time introductory rate for my Essence Shots, and there are only five slots available. I can promise you, I won’t be offering this again at this price.

So, if you’re ready to:

  • Stop letting fear hold you back.

  • Finally feel confident in front of the camera.

  • Capture your essence and elevate your personal brand.

This is your moment.

The Experience

When you book an Essence Shots session, here’s what you can expect:

  • A stress-free environment. I’ll guide you through poses that feel natural and comfortable. No awkward “what do I do with my hands” moments here.

  • A cheerleader in your corner. I’m here to hype you up, remind you how amazing you are, and make sure you feel empowered every step of the way.

  • Photos that tell your story. Whether you’re launching a brand, updating your LinkedIn, or finally putting yourself out there on Instagram, these photos will represent the best version of you.

Let’s Do This Together

I get it—this is scary. But it’s also exciting. Taking this step is a declaration: you’re done letting fear control your story.

So, what fears have held you back from showcasing your brand? Whatever it is, I’m here to help you move past it and into a space where confidence takes the lead.

Click here to book your Essence Shots session now and claim one of the five slots. Let’s capture the magic that’s been inside you all along.

You’re ready, queen. Let’s show the world.

With love,
Anacani

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Anacani Walters is a nurse-turned-entrepreneur, women’s wellness coach, and yoga instructor passionate about empowering heart-led women entrepreneurs. With a knack for turning creative ideas into actionable strategies, she helps her community build aligned, authentic businesses while prioritizing their well-being. Drawing from her experience in holistic wellness, mindfulness practices, and entrepreneurial coaching, Anacani creates resources that inspire women to break free from limitations, embrace their unique path, and thrive in both life and business. When she’s not teaching or creating, you’ll find her paddleboarding, crafting, or soaking up life as a mom in Okinawa, Japan.

Anacani Walters

Anacani Walters is a nurse-turned-entrepreneur, women’s wellness coach, and yoga instructor passionate about empowering heart-led women entrepreneurs. With a knack for turning creative ideas into actionable strategies, she helps her community build aligned, authentic businesses while prioritizing their well-being. Drawing from her experience in holistic wellness, mindfulness practices, and entrepreneurial coaching, Anacani creates resources that inspire women to break free from limitations, embrace their unique path, and thrive in both life and business. When she’s not teaching or creating, you’ll find her paddleboarding, crafting, or soaking up life as a mom in Okinawa, Japan.

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